Today we learned that it depends on where you are/who you know for how much you are affected with sad “holidays” (9/11 and Yom Hazikaron and Memorial day). If you are in America and you don’t know anyone who died in Israel, it won’t really affect you. However, if you are in Israel, chances are you might know someone that died and then you will be more affected but that doesn’t mean that Yom Hazikaron should be sadder in Israel and less sad in America.